Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Kitchen Remodel - Part Two by Marah

The demolition phase of any home remodeling project can take a while.  But when you have a husband and wife team with little to no experience, it can take a loooong time!  My husband took off work for a week to complete this project, and we knew that we'd probably still be putting the finishing touches on once the initial week had come to a close, but we didn't figure it would take the whole five days just to get everything torn apart!  We found ourselves asking each other if this was really necessary about every ten minutes!  We shared a lot of frustrations, but also a lot of laughs during those few days!  I'm considering a future blog posts of all of the really ridiculous comments I made during the process and I think I'll title it "Kitchen Renovation Blonde Moments" because there sure were a lot of them!  Like the time I told my husband that I knew what a circular saw was for - cutting circles in wood, of course!  He looked at me expecting me to be joking, but I was totally serious!  My dad apologized to him for not teaching me enough during my childhood!!


Anyway, I spent a lot of time during the week in my grandparents' garage painting the cabinets.  It started out with me just borrowing their garage for the space because it was raining a lot outside, but then it became my grandpa critiquing my every move!  This quickly turned into him grabbing the brush from my hand and helping himself to a roller and just taking over the job.  Ivan offered to help me paint in exchange for a few bucks because he is saving up for a Lego set, but he quickly disappeared into the kitchen to play games and eat snacks with my grandma!  My grandpa is coming up on his 88th birthday and really shouldn't be working hard in his garage, but he is one of the most stubborn men I've ever met, so I just let him do his thing!  I love my grandparents so very much, and the fact that I can watch my child work with my grandpa and play with my grandma just the way I did growing up makes my heart so happy!  I smiled ear to ear watching him enjoy spending a few days with them.  I have such fond memories of working in the garage with my grandpa on random projects and making signs for my bedroom and then going into the house to enjoy snacks and card games with both of them.  I think that's what life is really about - making memories with those who mean the most to you.




Once the cabinet doors and shelves were painted, I added some shelf paper to help preserve the cabinets a little bit, and then Michelle came over to help me paint the cabinets themselves!  We may have enjoyed a glass (or two) of wine during the process, but I'm sure it made us work even harder! ;)  Chris and Ivan jumped in to help, as well, and we all had a great time working together!  Once the cabinets were completely painted, we were ready to move onto cutting and installing the counter top.  Chris used his circular saw (to cut a straight line if that even makes any sense!) to cut the counter top down to the right size, and a jigsaw (I've learned a lot about power tools in case ya couldn't tell!) to cut out the hole for the sink, and he installed that and a brand new faucet.  I can finally see that everything is starting to come together, and I love it!






We were all set to put the hardware on the cabinets when we realized that we bought the wrong type of hinges, so back to Lowe's we went. But guess what?! They didn't work either, so we had to go back!!  I'm pretty sure we were there every single day for a week straight!  Then we realized once were putting the new handles on the drawers that we didn't actually measure to make sure the holes were correctly spaced, so now we have to add that to our list of things to fix!  Michelle always says "Measure twice, or even three times, cut once."  Thankfully we listened when measuring and cutting the counter top, but we clearly didn't listen with these new handles!  Oh well, I guess it adds to our remodel story, right?!

Aw Nuts!


Working on a kitchen is just that...a lot of work!  So Ivan and I decided to play hookie and head off for a day of fun!  We went to Young's Dairy Farm and enjoyed lunch, putt-putt golf, and ICE CREAM!!  Life is about balance, right?!  And all work and no play would just make for a rough life!




This is how I feel at this stage of the process!


Stay tuned for part three!


Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Our Kitchen Remodel - Part One by Marah

We bought our house about 9 years ago having just been married and still pretty much children.  It was all we could afford and was a refinanced home, so it needed a little work.  It is a basic three bedroom, brick ranch style home, but the addition of a family room with a large stone wall and wood burning fireplace just sealed the deal and we fell in love with it.  We have since remodeled all of the bedrooms and added much needed lighting, remodeled the two bathrooms, and added wood flooring in the living room, as well as creating a waterfall and little outdoor seating area that we just love in the back yard.  The one room left to tackle was the kitchen, but we knew it would be a big project, so we just kept putting it off.  I am happy to say that we finally decided to bite the bullet and remodel this very outdated and frankly, pretty ugly room!




After giving the cabinets a very thorough inspection, we decided that real, solid wood cabinets are a rarity today and we wanted to keep them, but update them as much as possible.  They are very sturdy and in really great shape, so all that was needed was a a little sanding, a fresh coat of paint and new hardware.  I really wanted the kitchen to be as bright as possible as we don't have a window in there, so we decided to go with a nice white semi gloss paint with a wax sealant.  For the backsplash, we chose a very light, neutral colored mosaic style tile that will both add a little color, but remain fairly neutral at the same time.  I just love the ever so slight pops of light blueish grey mixed with the tan colors!  I had my heart set on a dark wood butcher block counter top, but Chris and I did some research and realized that it is actually pretty difficult to maintain.  And while I LOVE spending time cooking and baking in my kitchen, spending time cleaning and treating the counter tops is not something that I really wanted to do.  So I gave up on the idea of butcher block and Chris, Ivan, and I wandered around Lowe's until we found a shade and style that we all agreed would go perfectly with the backsplash and white cabinets.  It was so adorable seeing Ivan just throw out his ideas and true feelings on each counter top!  That little boy has quite the personality!!  This left us with only paint colors to decide on, so I let the boys loose in Lowe's while I picked about 20 paint samples and then brought them home for Michelle and my sister to weigh in on!!  We narrowed it down to a few different neutral shades and I eventually decided on fair maple (or was it faint maple?! I can never remember!).

Once all of the decisions had been made, it was time to get home and start on the demolition phase!  Chris wanted to raise the cabinets up 3 inches to give us more room for my mixer and different counter top accessories, so we knew this would be a bit time consuming.  But he had his trusty sidekick, Ivan, helping him, so the job went very quickly and smoothly!  I don't know that I've seen that kid as happy as he was the moment Daddy put him on the counter, gave him a hammer, and told him to swing as many times as it took to tear out the drywall above the cabinets!  Daddy is VERY cautious when it comes to his boy, so Ivan was all set with eye protection and Daddy's hands on him the whole time.  He has also been a great help sanding the cabinets and removing the old backsplash.  As a mom, these are my favorite moments to watch - the moments when my little boy realizes he is capable of more than he thought and takes one more step towards becoming a little man!  Makes my Momma heart so happy!




Anyway, the demolition phase is taking a lot longer than expected, and I have been going crazy!  My house is in complete disarray, there is dust EVERYWHERE, and I can't ever seem to find what I need!  I had a mini breakdown when attempting to do laundry but not finding anywhere clean enough to fold the clothes.  My husband is very much a voice of reason and had to talk me down and remind me that no one is going to die because I can't do the laundry or dishes!  He's right, he's right, I know he's right!  I also hate the fact that we're eating out so much, but Michelle has been gracious enough to cook for us and invite us all over for dinner, so I really should just calm down and relax a little bit!

Up next will be starting to put things back together, so be sure to check back for part two.  In the mean time, please enjoy the pictures of my very messy, chaotic house!!



Sunday, April 16, 2017

Main Dish Monday! Chicken Parmesan Casserole

It’s Main Dish Monday!

This week’s Monday night family dinner recipe comes from Marah.  This is her recipe for the quick and easy, super cheesy Chicken Parmesan Casserole.  You may want to serve this with a light salad and some French baguette to complete your meal – enjoy your time around the table with your family!



  

Shopping List:
2 whole chicken breasts
1 jar of favorite pasta sauce
Shaved Parmesan cheese (8 oz or as much as you like)
Shredded mozzarella cheese (8 oz or as much as you like)
1 bag of favorite croutons
Red pepper flakes



Thursday, April 13, 2017

Note to Brides: Your handiest kitchen tool just may be an iron skillet!

For the past few years the iron skillet has been my go-to gift for brides; that along with a gorgeous negligee...after all to keep a happy husband, a young wife must be multi-talented or at least willing to learn.  

What can't you do with an iron skillet?  
That list may be shorter than what you CAN do with one.  

When Marah married Christopher we had two showers for her.  The first was a kitchenware party; she received everything she needed for her new position as queen of her castle.  Then we hosted a negligee party where she received beautiful gowns for every night of the month.  She's still happily married after nine years! 

(Hilarious side note:  The negligee shower was so much fun!  I highly recommend these two showers for brides-to-be; what more could a young woman need to begin life with her husband?  So, there we were, Marah's female family members - aunts, sisters, nieces, grandmas, pastor's wife, and friends.  It was early July and we served strawberry daiquiris; these were non-alcoholic mind you.  Must have been the music, the ambiance - something....but with some sass Marah began to twirl the hot pink boa we forced her to wear.  When all of a sudden smoke...flames....burnt feathers....the end of her boa had caught in a nearby candle!  No worries - that house is still standing and the fire department did not have to be called!)
Could they be any cuter?!
I cannot think of one dish that is my favorite to make using an iron skillet but I would say that the pan itself is my favorite kitchen tool.  I could list the health benefits of using an iron skillet and the dire warnings of using Teflon but, eh, that is too boring and very well documented online!  

In honor of yesterday being National Grilled Cheese Sandwich Day (really?  I missed that?!) here is my recipe for a smokin' hot grilled cheese sandwich:


French baguette slices 1/2" thick
Smoked Gouda cheese sliced thinly - as much as you like
Fontina cheese sliced thinly - as much as you like
Butter, melted in your iron skillet

Melt your butter in your iron skillet on medium heat; don't let it get warm enough to brown the butter, though.  Assemble your bread and cheese then turn the heat up just a bit before putting your sandwich into the frying pan.  You should hear it sizzle but there should not be smoke....or flames.  Brown each side of your cheesy, delicious Smoked Gouda grilled cheese sandwich to your desired crispiness.  Straighten your tiara and enjoy with a glass of red wine....and salad.  Don't forget to eat your veggies! 

Here's Marah explaining how to wash and care for your iron skillet: